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When it comes to the wild, wonderful, and sometimes wacky world of webcam sex, we all have to start somewhere.
That first time at bat can be daunting, with no real idea what to expect or how to conduct yourself, not to mention the feeling of awkwardness that accompanies exposing yourself on camera for the first time.
But here’s the good news – treat each webcam hookup as a learning experience, and things will only improve. You’ll soon hit your stride, wondering how on earth you got by without camming in your life.
Bearing a few basic tips and guidelines can make negotiating that initial learning curve even easier. For those who’ve literally zero experience with camming but are keen to get started the right way, here’s what you need to do:
1. Be Open Minded
You’ll have certain expectations in mind, which is both natural and inevitable. Even so, much of the fun of camming lies in opening yourself up to new experiences. Your ‘type’ may be skinny American blondes, but hook up with a curvy Asian for the first time, and you might never look back.
You’re free to play the field when you visit camming sites, so that’s exactly what you should do. Not just sticking with what you already know but taking the opportunity to broaden your horizons.
2. Browse the Site First
Speaking of freedom of choice, there’s a limitless range of camming sites to choose from. Hence, there’s no point in signing up with one that doesn’t cater to your tastes.
Take the time to browse the site first before signing up. If there are any free trials or introductory offers, be sure to take full advantage of them. It’s always better to find out what’s on offer for free before handing over any cash.
3. Check Out Performer Profiles
Thumbnails are great (awesome), but they don’t tell you a great deal about a performer. You’ll need to check out their profile to indicate better what they’ll do (and what’s off the menu).
This is where you’ll learn more about who they are, what they are interested in, the types of ‘services’ they specialize in, and more. Bear in mind that if it’s not specifically listed in their bio, it’s probably something they don’t do, so don’t ask for it.
4. Get to Know the Different Types of Shows
There are several different types of shows you can indulge in via camming sites, including but not limited to the following:
- Private – These are one-on-one shows with models of your choosing, typically charged per minute with tokens or credits. Nobody else can take part, but may be able to spy on the action between you.
- Exclusive Private – The most premium options available, the same as above minus the spying option. What takes place is just between you – 100% privacy and discretion guaranteed.
- Group – This refers to the type of performance in front of multiple participants. All of these are required to pay, with the opportunity to converse with the performer and their fellow participants via live chat.
- Spy – Where you pay to spy on the private session between a user and a performer. They don’t know you’re watching, but have consented that you might be by taking part in a non-exclusive private show.
Best advice – try out all of the above regularly, rather than committing yourself simply to one type of show.
5. Chat with the Performers
Communication holds the key to unforgettable online dates. Chat with the girls you hook up with, get to know them, and tell them what you want to see – all the better than a date filled with awkward silences.
Ask them questions and respond to theirs, keeping the whole thing as personable as possible. If it’s your first time, and you really don’t have a clue what you’re doing, you can always ask them to give you a few directions.
6. Relax and Enjoy Yourself
Ask any experienced cam girls, and they’ll tell you the same – nothing’s worse than clients who take themselves too seriously. This entire service is supposed to be about fun and enjoyment. The moment the enjoyment aspect goes out of the window, you may as well hang up.
Keep things lighthearted from start to finish, regardless of your nervousness. Don’t take yourself too seriously, except the occasional hiccup, and learn to laugh when things go wrong. The more pleasant and personable you are, the better the response you can expect from your date, all to your benefit.
