Rescuing 4 Children, but Struggling for Assistance
Theresa Coleman took custody of her niece’s neglected children, but financial aid has been hard to come by
Last October, Theresa Coleman received a call from a child-welfare investigator. Four young children, distant family members, had been discovered in a Georgia motel room filled with drugs, alcohol, a half-loaf of bread, a half-jar of peanut butter and a dwindling supply of baby formula.
Coleman, who lives in the Bayview district of San Francisco, was told she had six days to pick up the children.
Unable to afford a plane ticket, Coleman rode the bus 2,200 miles to Marietta, Ga. After a brief hearing, Judge James R. Whitfield of Cobb County Juvenile Court granted her temporary custody of two boys — an infant and a 6-year-old — and two girls, ages 1 and 2. The children’s mother is her niece, who was working out of the motel as a prostitute, Coleman said.
Coleman, 49, brought the children back to the Bay Area, and she is now struggling to support them and the rest of her family. Eleven people live in her four-bedroom home, including a teenage foster child and five relatives ages 11/2 to 23.
Officials in Georgia have denied financial assistance and officials in San Francisco have been slow to provide access to government services for the neglected children after Judge Whitfield declined to use an interstate transfer agreement that would have qualified them for support.
Judge Whitfield said he did not use the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children, a standard legal procedure that ensures continuity of services and financial aid when state-dependent children are transferred across state lines, because the process can take months. He said he wanted to place the children as soon as possible because a relative was available to care for them. Coleman’s niece had identified her as someone who could take the children.
“It appears Georgia has dumped the children; I’m feeling the weight of what I’ve gotten myself into,” said Coleman, whose living room is now crowded with two cribs and two beds.
Coleman’s predicament is not uncommon, according to local officials and child welfare advocates. Caregivers must navigate a confusing bureaucracy, even when it comes to drawing support from a system designed to protect abused and neglected children. The situations are particularly confusing when the children are transferred across state lines, local officials said.
Bobby Parnell, director of child advocacy at Justice for Children in Houston, estimated that 10 to 15 percent of the cases did not go through the interstate-transfer agreement. “That’s probably not a good idea to do it that way, but it does happen,” Parnell said. “Judges usually overstep their bounds in my estimation by expediting the placement.”
Without proper guidance from a judge or local officials, custodians can be bounced between various agencies. “This is pretty typical for families that are living in poverty,” said Sonja Lenz-Rashid, an associate professor at the School of Social Work at San Francisco State University. “Unfortunately, they aren’t told what they should be told.”
With the four Georgia children in limbo, San Francisco nonprofit organizations are scrambling to cobble together food, diapers and other supplies.
Last month, representatives from several community groups gathered in Coleman’s kitchen — the living room was too cluttered — as the children watched cartoons in an adjoining room. They discussed ways to patch together a plan for food delivery, dental care and other services.
“This is a lot of people here at one time for them,” Coleman, who is nearly blind in one eye and suffers from a degenerative knee condition, told the group. “It’s good for them to know that everybody’s not a rapist, that everybody’s not going to hurt them.”
The children have chronic asthma and have shown signs of abuse, Coleman said. They have nightmares, she said, and sometimes mimic what appear to be sexual acts with one another.
Coleman said she had decided to take custody of the children to prevent them from disappearing into the Georgia foster-care system. She said the child-welfare investigator told her that the 6-year-old had been the main caregiver for his siblings while their parents engaged in prostitution to support drug habits.
By expediting their placement, Judge Whitfield removed them from the Georgia child-welfare system, leaving them ineligible for foster care payments and services.
“That order relieved the Cobb County Department of Families and Children of any obligation to the four kids,” Judge Whitfield said, adding that Coleman “left here knowing pretty clear that she would be on her own providing for the children.”
Coleman disputed that assertion.
“The order doesn’t make it clear that there would be no support,” she said, “because I was looking for that.”
Thomas Kearns, the investigator who contacted Coleman, said in an interview that Cobb County social workers always recommend an interstate-transfer procedure before placing children with out-of-state relatives. But, Kearns said, the final decision rests with judges who are not always privy to those recommendations.
“There’s really no legal opportunity to present a recommendation to the court before the hearing,” said Kearns, who agreed to speak about agency protocol, but not specifically about Coleman’s case.
Coleman said she first realized something was wrong when, at the Marietta courthouse after the hearing, she was left ill prepared to travel with the children.
“Where are the bags?” she said she asked. “Where is the paperwork? Where are the car seats, the Sippy Cups, the diapers? If they have chronic asthma, there should be some medicine.”
Kearns said his agency was not responsible for such provisions.
“Once a relative is given responsibility by the court, that relative is responsible to take care of those needs,” he said. “We don’t have the ability to do that.”
Coleman said she had to borrow nearly $2,000 from friends in the Bay Area to buy plane tickets home after Cobb County refused to pay the children’s airfare.
By December, Coleman said she was still unsure why the children were not receiving assistance. After repeated calls to agencies in Cobb County and San Francisco, she and a San Francisco County caseworker spoke with Keisha Green, a social worker involved w ith the case in Georgia. Green confirmed to them that Cobb County would not pay for any services.
Trent Rhorer, executive director of the San Francisco Human Services Agency, said in an e-mail that San Francisco child-welfare workers helped Coleman get access to food stamps and financial aid.
Coleman said the temporary benefits totaled about $600 a month for the four children. If Cobb County accepted responsibility for the children, she would be entitled to at least $500 a month per child and perhaps significantly more.
Joanne Royer, clinical director of Raphael House, a nonprofit family support agency in San Francisco, has offered Coleman some case management and mental-health support. Royer also filed a report to the Human Services Commission in November regarding the possible abuse of the four children in Georgia.
“My intent was to hopefully get them acknowledged and get them linked up somehow with services in the child-welfare system,” she said. “I think cases slip through the cracks sometimes.”
Judge Whitfield said Coleman had options if she thought she had taken on too much responsibility; his court order allows her to relinquish custody and return the children to Georgia.
“They are our responsibility,” the judge said, “and we will take them back.”
This article also appears in the Bay Area edition of The New York Times.







Janice Wood
How can we help this family
Theresa Coleman
Hello My name is Theresa Coleman. I thank you for wanting to help. My mailing address is 1242 Hollister Ave. San Francisco, CA 94124. My email address is theresalynncoleman@yahoo.
Much Respect
Theresa Coleman
Theresa Coleman
Correcting the email address; theresalynncoleman@yahoo.com
Theresa Coleman
I thank you for wanting to help. My mailing address is 1242 Hollister Ave. San Francisco, CA 94124. My email address is theresalynncoleman@yahoo.
Ben Highton
Yes, can you provide the contact information for organizations seeking to help that would accept donations ($ and/or supplies) on the family's behalf.
Theresa Coleman
Ujaama Resident Management Corporation
1242 Hollister Street• San Francisco • California • 94124
Tax Identification Number Tax ID# 94-3173813
Theresa Coleman
Hello Ben,
I thank you for wanting to help. My mailing address is 1242 Hollister Ave. San Francisco, CA 94124. My email address is theresalynncoleman@yahoo.com
Theresa Coleman
I thank you for wanting to help. My mailing address is 1242 Hollister Ave. San Francisco, CA 94124. My email address is theresalynncoleman@yahoo.com
Trey Bundy
In response to the readers who have made kind offers to help Ms. Coleman and her family, please send email to tbundy@baycitizen.org
Ebony Jones
my mother theresa coleman is god sent,and I dont understand how them children was just droped off on her with no support?I hope that anyone who reads this really look into her case because she is a mother,grandmother,& a auntie trying to take care of her family on a fixed income.We love her so much but it hurts us to see her without the things she needs to take care of the kids..God bless
Robert Gartner
I hope Theresa Coleman and her relatives get all the help they need.
I am quite unhappy with the author finding and quoting the likes of Justice for Children (JFC) Houston, Texas in this article however. You see JFC intruded into my life after I had wuite successfully raised my precious daughter from the age of eighteen months until she was six and one half. I was able to gain custody of her from her drug addicted mother. Yet because JFC rejects the existence and credibility of Parental Alienation it failed my daughter and myself. Her mother too was out committing three felonies while she got their free 'help' to take our daughter from me. Today at 24 years of age my daughter still cannot speak with me she is so severely alienated brought about by the 'intervention' by JFC and her severe level alienating mother. Evne my granddaughter, now 5 years old, has not known me. JFC should lose their tax exempt status and nobody, absolutely nobody, should allow them to be quoted anywhere.